Saturday, April 9, 2016

MIA due to family issues.

Sorry I have not been on here lately and wrote but I have been dealing with some personal issues in my family.   Aside from my typical everyday craziness we have added a few new thing to our family and not all so good.

   My youngest daughter a few weeks ago awoke me from my sleep making weird noises and when I turned on the light I realized she was in the middle of having a seizure.

   In the past 3 weeks she has had three that we have been able to document.

   This is a very difficult and scary situation that we are having to deal with.  We have had an urgent referral put into a pediatric neurologist due to the nature of the episodes.
    Until we have this situation dealt with and under control I will be MIA considering I have much bigger priorities.

   Thank you for understanding.    I will definitely  be back but just not for the time being.   For now just must say, ttyl.


Monday, February 29, 2016

Got lots on my brain.

   Haven't had a chance to write lately as I have been dealing with chronic migraines.  But in that time a lot has happened in my day to day housewife life.

   There's a few things I'd like to write about but they are on total opposite spectrums of the board so I will have to devide them into different posts.

   With that being said I am going to try and get them out this week.   I have topics about school bullying, when to stop hovering and let your teen figure it out on their own and a few other things on my brain.

   Once again thanks for following and keep on keeping it REAL!!   Can't wait to write all my jumbled brain thoughts down for you to read and hopefully in way you will be able to relate.

   A REAL Housewife.

Friday, February 19, 2016


Happy weekend everyone!  Just wanted to say thanks for reading my blog.  I have hit just over 1000 views!   Hope everyone has an awesome weekend.  We've got a full weekend of dance classes and workshops, so I will see you Monday!!

Thursday, February 18, 2016

Still got high school drama and I'm an adult!!

   Every time I am around a big group of woman like at school or the kids activities, I think to myself WTF.   The way woman gossip and talk to each other is the same as my high school sons friends.  In reality the drama is no different than what you see on TV between those housewives lol.

   I thought once you left high school that you left all that drama and bullshit behind but that is clearly not the case.   There have been countless times where I hear other moms trashing each other behind their backs or contradicting themselves.

   For instance there is a Mother I know that is good friends outside of the kids activities with another mother that acts all concerned for her but as soon as she is gone BOOM now she starts contradicting herself and bashing the other one.

   And holy cow the judgments that come out of some of these mommy mouths is shocking.   "Hi, you look so great today....   omg did you see her she looks like shit today" Kinda stuff.    And then the predictions of what could be the problem as to why they look like shit are so random and dramatic.

   I have had my fair share of adult high school drama.  I had what I thought was a very good and close friend for years until one day she was caught bashing me with a family member.  I was so hurt and pissed so I confronted her.   She blanently made up lies.

   On one hand she was a great friend to me.  We would talk frequently about everything and confided  in each other .  She even asked me to be her Maid of Honor.   So i assumed we were solid bff's.  But behind my back she was speaking lies and telling my secrets to a family member who did not care for me to much just so she could gain approval from that person.

   Once she was caught and confronted she did not take responsibility  but rather she told even larger lies to try to discredit my concerns even more.    I was infuriated.   I hate nothing more than being told I have done something that I know clearly I did not do.

   I'm not sure what hurt more,  the fact that I now had to grieve what I thought was a true friend or the fact that she had been so deceptive and that people actually bought her bullshit.

   It has been over 6 years since this happened and to this day I am still disgusted that an adult woman could be this way and purposely  deface and devalue another human being for personal gain.

   I could go on and on with the stories of what I see and hear coming from grown ass woman but instead I want to hear your stories so please share.   You can anonymously comment below about what high school type bullshit you have had to deal with even though high-school ended decades ago because hey those mean bitches didn't just grow out of it.   They are still lerking in the corners.  

   A REAL Housewife

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

I'm back!!!

   It's been just over a week since I've wrote anything here thanks to a horrible stomach flu that disrupted everything in my household.

   Sorry to all my readers but I promise I will be back on board soon.   I'm just finally getting my day to day stuff back in order.  You know what it is like when the whole house is sick for a week.

   The dishes start piling up, the piles of laundry turn to mountains and everything has been forgotten about.   I am now just finally getting things done and getting the kids caught up on the school work they missed.    Stay tuned.  I promise you won't be disappointed!!

   A REAL Housewife

Thursday, February 11, 2016

Crap I've got the kids flu.

   Well I thought the flu was out of the house but boy was I wrong.   I am feverish and aching from head to toe.  I dropped the kids off at school in the a.m. and slept the entire day till I had to pick them up again.

   I cancelled their activities for the evening cause there is no way I am sitting around anywhere feeling like this.  Unfortunately I hadn't gotten around to picking up valentine's day cards for their classes today so I had no choice but to stop down the street at Walmart and grab them. Considering  they need them for tomorrow, I had no choice.

   Needless to say I was in and out fairly quickly.  I looked at the kids and said "these are the ones we are getting now let's go," all while trying not to faint or barf.    There definitely will not be any snacks brought in tomorrow.   All they are getting from me is tiny little paper cards.

  Anyhow, that's all I've got since I did nothing but sleep all day and am about to head back to la la land again.  Goodnight.

   A REAL Housewife

Wednesday, February 10, 2016

The flu has left the building

   Phew.  We got through the flu.  It wrecked complete havic on the house but we got through it.  Still crossing fingers that us who didn't get it, don't!

   I've literally disinfected  every light switch, toilet handle and door nob, just to try and avoid the continuation  of it spreading any further through the house.  So here's hoping!

   Anyhow, now that things are back in order, I can have a little me time and come up with something to interest you.  If you have any ideas on what housewifely  topics you would like to hear about.  Whether good, bad, or holy crap are you for real, please leave a comment.  Thanks!!!

   A REAL Housewife